I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker

like dark brown, or black. I`ve never used any colorants in my hair and it`s really silky..will coloring change the texture? I`m fair-skinned..won`t dark hair sort of wash me out? My eyes are green.My hair is super-straight..now he wants it to be curly, too! I`m confused..any real advice is welcomed!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Coloring will damage your hair and ruin the texture causing it to be dull and flat. Dying your hair darker will wash you out as your skin tone will not go well with the false dark color.

If your guy wants you to change so he is happy, change the guy. It is YOUR body. DO what makes YOU happy, what YOU want. When a guy starts dictating and nagging about how he wants you to look, be worried. That is a sign of a controlling and domineering type of person. If he doesn't like the fact that you don't want to dye your hair - tough! He isn't worth it if he complains.

Once you dye your hair it is soooo hard to get it back to your original state. You can't get your natural hair color out of a bottle!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

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I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

I wouldn't do it.

That would tell me that my guy possibly has someone else in mind and wants you to be more like them or something.

If your hair is silky then I would leave it alone.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Tell him you will color your hair for him if he shaves his eyebrows off for you!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

why should you change to suit his whims??

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

red hair is hot trust me

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Keep your hair color.

Dump the boyfriend.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

i wouldnt do it your hair may dry out and become brittle dont take the chance...

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

tell him to kiss your butt, be how you are, make yourself happy FIRST, then and only then consider what he says. Tell him you don't like his hair color and he needs to change it for you!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

ginger minger ahhhhhhhh childish and rude

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

keep ur blond i love blonde

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

my wife has blondish, light hair,i asked her to dye it darker for a different look. She did,no problems. expensive though, but it was fun for a different look for a while.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

tell him ta get a life by wot ur saying ur really pretty and changing will make u less u never change for a guy only change if its what you want jus think if you change for him what wil he want you to do next x

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Your hair looked like it does now when you got together so tell him that he should still love you for who you are. Colorings and perms do horrible chemical processes to your hair that can make it frizzy, dried out and unmanageable. I personally have light blue eyes with jet black hair. My skin in the winter is fair but it looks right on me because it is my natural color. I am sure you are beautiful just as you are now, I would not change a thing. If he does not like it, then you don't need him anyways. Good Luck!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

girl do ur thing dont change for a guy because if u start now then hes gonna wanna control everything like what u wear and weather ur fat or not do what U want not what HE wants

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

I don't think yr bf really loves u.

If he did, he would luv yr inner qualities, not the appearance.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Why are you letting him change you?

Dying your light hair dark will screw it up in the long run. If you don't like the color, only harsh bleach will get it blonde again and even then you won't have the same color you had before.

I have fair skin, black hair, and green eyes, and if I do not wear makeup, I look like the living dead, so yes, it will wash you out.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

If you like the way your hair is then keep it as it is, please don't change your appearance because someone else doesn't appreciate it, be your own woman and tell him that you like your hair the way it is, if you don't like it and YOU fancy changing it's colour because YOU wnat then take some advice from a hairdresser , colouring can be fine but it's better to have it done professionally as some products can dry out the hair and certain colours will not suit you!

Take it from someone who has/and still colouring their hair , but I go to the salon everytime now!!

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

To make it easy...

Just buy a dark wig, they are not too expensive.

Than you can change back if you don't like it.

You might not like the way you look with darker hair, a wig might be the best choose to try...

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

My questions would be for him ...

Why the sudden switch?

Who do you know with hair like this?

And What makes you think I'll look good like this?

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But for your questions - yep, it's going to be a drastic change and you won't recognize the person in the mirror for a while. Ask how he feels about some highlights. The highlights will soften the color up some.

I would experiment with some short term hair products. Color glazes, or temporary perms. Get an idea what it might look like before doing anything that you'll be stuck with for several months. Also remember do it the new way for a few days before you make up your mind hard and fast how much you like it. The first few times you see yourself like this are going to be more shock than actual well thought out critique.

Good Luck

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

It sounds like he just wants a small change. ok a big change but it is hair dye it will wash/fade out. If you get the kind that washes out in 28 shampoos you have no worries about damaging your hair. As far as the curling goes if you have energy just use a curling iorn or go in and have your hair curled you do not have to perm it. I would try it for him. If you dont like it, you can say you tried and he will be ok with that.

My guy had a dream once that my hair was dark and curly and thought it looked hot in his dream. I did it for him. He realized he liked me better the way I was before was really happy and turned on that I tried it for him.

I wouldnt be concerned. He likes you the way you are I am sure. He is just looking for a change.

I have strawberry blonde, long hair. My guy always said he loved my hair,now he says he likes darker hair...?

Don't do it, don't ruin your beautiful strawberry blond hair. You have the same colouring as me and dark colours do not suit that colouring, you will look older, washed out and possibly boring as well. Don't dye it and don't perm it, he met you as you are and should not be pressuring you. Dying your hair will ruin the texture if you are not careful, it will go dry and possibly break as well. I beg you, do not ruin your hair, you will regret it, dump the bloke and get someone who worships you for the goddess you are.